Bondage isn’t something you want to just spring on someone. If you’ve been hanging out at the dungeons by yourself for the past few months and you want to enslave that new blonde your banging, we can help.
Today, your favorite free porn blog is going to show you how to introduce your BDSM fetish to someone new.
So you’re a fan of the whip. Good for you! Now, how the hell are you going to bring it up to that new girl you’re dating?The best way is to start is with the light stuff. No, you don’t have to get feather or silk, you want her in a collar before next year for crying out loud.
Go with some fur covered hand cuffs to start. The next time you’re going at it in the bedroom whisper in her ear that you want to tie her to the bed. In the beginning always ask when it comes to restraining her. This is pretty tame so she should say yes.
If she takes that in stride then you can move onto smacking her ass while you’re fucking her in cuffs. Make sure to smack a little harder than just a love tap, this will test how she’ll handle heavier stuff.
If she complains, ask her if she wants you to stop, if she says yes, stop. That will re-enforce that she always has the control to stop things when she’s not feeling it. If she says to keep going, you might have a winner on your hands.
Sex toys are next on the menu. Tell her you’ve got a special treat for her. Then, with her permission, handcuff her to a chair and start teasing her with a vibrator. Put some clothespins on her nipples, if she balks, take the vibrator away.
Wait a beat, then try again and if she lets you this time, tease the vibrator on her pussy till she cums. This is great training. Most people who are getting off without having to do anything but endure a tiny bit of pain are going to become more open to a little bit of S&M.
Now that you’ve got her being spanked, clothes pinned, vibrator tortured and handcuffed on a regular basis, you can go ahead and bring out the dog collar and whip. By this point she should know what you’re into and it will now just be a matter of setting the boundaries of your bondage and BDSM play.
Creating the boundaries are important. If you don’t want a policeman knocking at your door, never cross her line. If you follow these simple steps you’ll be dragging your new slave down to the dungeon in no time!
Happy hog tying!